Child Therapy


When Your Child Is Struggling, You Don’t Have to Face It Alone

As a parent, it can be difficult to know what to do when your child seems anxious, withdrawn, overwhelmed, or emotionally distressed. You may notice changes in behavior, mood, sleep, or school performance and wonder whether these challenges will pass on their own or require additional support. You are probably feeling overwhelmed - unsure of how to calm your child down or help your child feel better.

When children are overwhelmed, some will become overly controlling to try to mitigate their anxiety. Others will shut down. Some will react with rage. Each of these outer behaviors is a signal that something is "off track" deep inside. These surface behaviors are symptoms of unprocessed feelings and unmet needs that lie beneath the surface, in need of our help and support. 

Child therapy provides a safe, supportive space where children can explore emotions, learn coping skills, and work through challenges in a developmentally appropriate way. With the right guidance, therapy can help children feel more confident, emotionally balanced, and secure as they grow.

You Are Not Alone — And Neither Is Your Child

Many families seek therapy for children during times of transition, stress, or emotional difficulty. Anxiety, sadness, irritability, behavioral outbursts, or withdrawal are common signs that a child may need support.

Seeking child counseling does not mean that something is wrong with your child or your parenting. Many children who come into our offices have highly sensitive systems that get easily overwhelmed, which can be confusing and overwhelming for parents. Further, children often lack the words to express what they are feeling. Counseling for children helps translate those emotions into understanding and healthy coping strategies.

At Mindful Child & Family Therapy (MCAFT), we believe early, compassionate intervention can make a meaningful difference in a child’s emotional and developmental well-being. And early intervention can help ease the burden on you, the parents, who are working so hard to make sense of your child's struggles.

How Child Therapy at MCAFT Helps

At Mindful Child & Family Therapy, child therapy is trauma-informed, evidence-based, and tailored to each child’s age, personality, and needs. Our clinicians understand the subtle differences in how children communicate, and therapy is designed to meet each child uniquely where they are - especially highly sensitive children who tend towards high anxiety, leading acting out and off-track behaviors. 

Working with a trained child therapist, therapy may help children:

  • Understand and express emotions safely
  • Develop emotional regulation and coping skills
  • Reduce anxiety and stress responses
  • Improve behavior and social interactions with friends and family 
  • Build self-esteem and resilience

Our child counselors collaborate closely with caregivers to ensure progress continues outside the therapy room.

Therapeutic Approaches Used in Child Therapy

Play-Based and Expressive Therapy

For younger children, kids therapy often uses play as a natural form of communication. Through guided play and creative expression, children can process emotions, experiences, and worries in a way that feels safe and non-threatening.

Cognitive and Skills-Based Therapy

For older children and adolescents, structured approaches support emotional awareness, problem-solving, and healthy thinking patterns. This type of kids counseling can be especially helpful for managing stress, emotional regulation, and behavioral challenges.

Trauma-Informed Child Therapy

Children who have experienced stressful or overwhelming events may benefit from childhood trauma therapy. This approach focuses on restoring emotional safety, building trust, and supporting gradual healing without re-traumatization. For children struggling with self-regulation, our trauma-informed work helps cultivate body-based awareness that supports emotional resilience.

Support for Anxiety, Depression, and Emotional Challenges

Child therapy can be especially helpful when children struggle with ongoing emotional concerns.

  • Child anxiety treatment helps children manage fears, worries, and physical symptoms of anxiety.
  • Childhood depression treatment supports children experiencing persistent sadness, withdrawal, or low motivation.
  • Therapy also supports children navigating grief, family changes, academic pressure, athletic performance or social difficulties.

When emotional challenges interfere with daily life, early therapeutic support can help prevent long-term difficulties.

The Role of Caregivers in Child Therapy

Caregiver involvement is a vital part of effective child therapy. At MCAFT, therapists work collaboratively with parents or guardians to:

  • Share insights and progress updates
  • Provide strategies to support emotional regulation at home
  • Strengthen the parent-child relationship

This partnership ensures therapy benefits extend beyond sessions into everyday family life.

What to Expect in Child Therapy

Early sessions focus on understanding your child’s needs, strengths, and challenges. Therapy progresses at a pace that feels safe and supportive, with regular parent check-ins to ensure goals are being met. You, the loving parents, are seen as an essential part of the process, and your regular engagement is greatly appreciated.

Sessions typically last 45–50 minutes. The length of therapy varies—some children benefit from short-term support, while others may need longer-term care depending on their circumstances.

Why Choose Mindful Child & Family Therapy (MCAFT)?

At Mindful Child & Family Therapy, our clinicians specialize in working with children and families using compassionate, developmentally appropriate care. We offer:

  • Licensed child therapists and child psychologists
  • Trauma-informed and evidence-based approaches
  • Collaborative caregiver involvement
  • A supportive, child-centered therapeutic environment

Our goal is to support not just symptom relief, but healthy emotional development and long-term resilience. Some parents consider therapy an investment in one of their most valuable assets - the mental / emotional health of their children, and their relationship with the people they love most.

Take the Next Step for Your Child

If your child is experiencing emotional, behavioral, or developmental challenges, child therapy can provide meaningful support during a critical stage of growth.

Schedule a FREE 20 minute consultation with Mindful Child & Family Therapy (MCAFT) to explore how therapy for children may support your child’s well-being.


Frequently Asked Questions

What is child therapy?

Child therapy is a form of mental health care that helps children understand emotions, manage behavior, and develop coping skills using age-appropriate, evidence-based approaches.

How do I know if my child needs therapy?

If emotional or behavioral concerns persist, interfere with daily life, or follow stressful or traumatic experiences, therapy for children may be beneficial.

What age can a child start therapy?

There is no minimum age. Children can benefit from therapy at any developmental stage.

How long does child therapy usually last?

The duration varies depending on the child’s needs and goals. Some children benefit from short-term therapy, while others may need ongoing support.

Is child therapy confidential?

Yes. Confidentiality is respected while caregivers are appropriately involved to ensure safety and progress.

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How do I talk to my child about starting therapy?
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“I want to talk with you about something important, and there’s nothing wrong and you’re not in trouble.

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How do I know if my child’s behavior is age-appropriate?

Compare behavior to your child’s baseline, use the intensity-frequency-duration-impact lens, and watch for patterns over time.

Are tantrums still normal after preschool?

Tantrums typically decrease with age. Frequent, intense, or aggressive outbursts may signal emotional overload.

Can stress or trauma delay development?

Yes. Stress and trauma can temporarily affect emotional regulation, attention, and behavior at any age.

When should I stop “waiting it out”?

If behavior persists for weeks, worsens, or interferes with daily life, it’s reasonable to seek guidance.

Does seeking therapy mean something is wrong?

No. Therapy is a support tool—not a label—and often prevents problems from escalating.

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Did I cause my child’s anxiety or behavior problems?

Usually no. Child behavior is shaped by temperament, development, stress, and environment—not one parenting decision.

Why do parents blame themselves so quickly?

Guilt can feel like control when a child is struggling. It’s a common response to caring deeply—not evidence of failure.

Can my stress make my child worse?

Stress can amplify reactions, but it doesn’t mean you caused the problem. Support often helps both child and parent regulate.

What if different parenting would have prevented this?

There’s no perfect parenting style. Children respond differently even within the same family.

When should I seek professional support?

If struggles persist, escalate, or interfere with daily life, therapy can help—without blame or labeling.

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Is this just a phase, or should I be concerned?

Some changes are normal, but if behavior shifts last several weeks, escalate, or disrupt daily life, it’s worth exploring support.

Why does my child act fine at school but fall apart at home?

Many children hold stress in all day and release it where they feel safest. After-school meltdowns are a common stress response.

Are tantrums and defiance always discipline problems?

Not always. For some children, defiance reflects overwhelm or a fight-response rather than intentional misbehavior.

How do I know if my child needs therapy?

If stress responses are frequent, intense, or affecting family life, therapy can help—even without a diagnosis.

Will child therapy blame me or my child?

No. Trauma-informed child therapy avoids blame and focuses on skills, safety, and strengthening family support.

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How long should I wait before seeking help?

If changes last several weeks, worsen, or disrupt daily life, it’s reasonable to consult a professional rather than waiting indefinitely.

Aren’t mood swings normal for kids and teens?

Some ups and downs are normal. What matters is a clear change from baseline combined with persistence and impact.

Can physical complaints really be stress-related?

Yes. Stress and anxiety often show up as stomachaches, headaches, or sleep problems in children.

What if I’m not sure it’s “serious enough”?

You don’t need certainty to seek guidance. An assessment helps clarify what’s happening—it doesn’t lock you into treatment.

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Is it normal for behavior changes to appear long after an event?

Yes. Children often process stress later, especially during transitions, reminders, or increased demands.

What are common reasons for sudden behavior changes?

Anxiety, grief, trauma, social stress, family transitions, sleep loss, or learning challenges can all contribute.

How do I know if this is a phase or something more?

Watch for persistence, intensity, and impact on daily life. Ongoing disruption is a signal to seek guidance.

What can I do during a meltdown or shutdown?

Focus on calming the body first, use fewer words, offer simple choices, and problem-solve after regulation returns.

When should I seek professional help?

If changes last several weeks, worsen, interfere with school or relationships, or involve safety concerns, support is recommended.

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