Anxiety Therapy

Anxiety Therapy for High Achievers & Families

Serving Los Altos, Mountain View, San Jose & Half Moon Bay — In-Person and Online

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When High Achievement Meets High Anxiety

In the heart of Silicon Valley, we support many high-achieving professionals who hold themselves to exceptionally high standards. They work hard at everything — their careers, their relationships, their health.

They also work very hard to manage, control, or eliminate their anxiety.

For years, that strategy may have worked. Pushing worry down. Powering through. Optimizing productivity.

But over time, what was pushed down begins to push back.

Trauma therapist Peter Levine writes, "What is not felt either remains unchanged, or gains an inward pressure."

Eventually, anxiety begins to bubble up in ways that feel overwhelming — panic attacks, chronic hypervigilance, insomnia, irritability, or a persistent sense that something is about to go wrong.

Chronic Worry, Trauma & Hypervigilance

For some, anxiety is rooted in trauma or complex trauma. The nervous system becomes conditioned to expect threat.

Worry becomes generalized. It “hangs its hat” on the next thing — health, finances, relationships, parenting.

This can evolve into:

  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
  • Social anxiety
  • Panic attacks
  • Performance anxiety

Anxiety in Parents

We also work with parents who feel constant worry about their babies, children, teens, or young adults — even those still living at home.

Parenting anxiety often sounds like:

  • "What if something happens to them?"
  • "Am I doing enough?"
  • "Did I miss something important?"

When anxiety drives parenting, it can create exhaustion and tension in the family system.

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From Fixing Anxiety to Relating to It

The temptation is to fix anxiety. Manage it. Eliminate it.

Sometimes that works in the short term. But often it becomes a short-term win and a long-term loss.

In our offices in Los Altos, San Jose, and Half Moon Bay, we take a different approach.

We help you become curious about your anxiety. Develop a compassionate relationship with it. Understand what it protects and what it needs.

When anxiety is met with compassion instead of fear, it often begins to soften.

Evidence-Based & Trauma-Informed Approaches We Use

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • EMDR
  • Mindfulness-Based CBT
  • Exposure-Based Therapy
  • Somatic Therapy
  • Polyvagal-Informed Work

We tailor treatment to your nervous system, personality, and goals.

What to Expect in Your First Session

  • You’ll share what anxiety has been costing you.
  • We’ll explore what has and hasn’t worked.
  • You’ll leave with a clearer understanding of your anxiety pattern.
  • We’ll outline a path forward together.

You Don’t Have to Manage This Alone

If anxiety has outgrown your ability to control it, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Compassionate, evidence-based support is available.

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Anxiety therapy in Los Altos, Mountain View, San Jose, and Half Moon Bay for high-functioning anxiety, chronic worry, panic attacks, and parenting anxiety. Trauma-informed and nervous-system-based treatment.