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Boundaries & Our Parts:

Healing our Relationship with Ourselves
as we Set Limits with Others

September 11-13, 2026

Lissa Rankin, MD

Green Mountain Retreat, 19480 Bear Creek Rd, Los Gatos, CA
Cost: $600 per person + day pass or accommodations
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Get support in setting, negotiating, and respecting boundaries using Internal Family Systems informed parts work, so you can protect yourself and others in order to enjoy deeper, safer intimacy as well as trust, empathy & respect in all of your relationships.Therapists, self-help books, and recovery programs hammer into us the importance of healthy boundaries, and rightfully so.

Without boundaries to protect us from mistreatment and boundaries to contain us from mistreating others, relationships are often unsafe and can be retraumatizing. Lack of boundaries erodes trust, and the intimacy we all crave and need for our emotional, physical, and spiritual health can feel hard to find and/or sustain.

Without healthy, safe, emotionally intimate relationships, our health can suffer, and our recovery can be impaired if we do wind up sick. But once we learn to put healthy boundaries in place, we’re free to let our hearts blossom, like putting a greenhouse around an orchid bulb and getting clear about who we will and won’t let into our greenhouse.

Anyone with an interest in IFS and relationships is welcome. If you’re new to IFS, Lissa can provide you- at no additional cost - with an IFS Basics online program recording required to finish before attending, so you’re up to speed.

New to IFS? Watch Lissa Rankin’s "IFS Basics" online program: https://courses.lissarankin.com/ifs-for-self-healing

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SCHEDULE

FRIDAY: ARRIVAL + SAFETY + ORIENTATION

3:00–5:00 pm — Check-In, Optional Creative Prompts 5:30–6:30 pm — Dinner Break
7:00–9:00 pm — Opening Circle: Agreements + Parts Introduction

SATURDAY:

8:00–9:00 am — Breakfast
9:00–10:30 am — IFS Meditation Check In & Shares, Get To Know Your Boundary- Wounded Parts (IFS Lens) 10:30–10:45 — Break
10:45–12:00 pm — The Distinction Between Boundaries 1.0 & Boundaries 2.0, Internal Vs. External Boundaries
12:00–2:00 pm — Lunch Break
2:00–3:30 pm — Power, Control, Narcissism, Fawning & How Boundary-Wounded People Pair Up 3:30–3:45 pm — Break
3:45–5:00 pm —Practicum Setup: Boundary Scripts, Conversations & Practice

SUNDAY:

8:00-9:00am Breakfast
9:00–10:30 am — IFS Parts Check In, Troubleshooting When Boundaries Go Wrong 10:30–10:45 am — Break
10:45–12:00 pm — 6 Steps To Discern Whether Boundaries 2.0 Are Possible Relationally 12:00–2:00 pm — Lunch
2:00–3:00 pm — Closing Circle

Accommodations:

Limited accommodations are available at Green Mountain Retreat. 5 Queen Rooms in the shared cottage are $495 each (includes breakfast and lunch both days), and the commuter rate is $65 (includes lunch both days).

Overnight participants are welcome to find dinner in nearby restaurants or order in.


Make your  $100 deposit here today!

Retreat Disclaimer:

Please note that this is not a formal training course, and is not intended as a didactic training on how to apply this information in your work with other people. This is a retreat. Retreats are designed to enhance your life, support your personal growth and promote well-being. That being said, engaging in experiential activities and getting more familiar with your own internal system is a wonderful way to learn the IFS model and continue to deepen your proficiency with it professionally. Please note that there will not be IFS CE’s for this retreat.

Cancellation Policy:

Any and all deposits and/or payments for the workshop portion of our retreats / courses are non-refundable and non-transferable. Lodging payments are refundable according to the guidelines of each particular retreat center. Please note that there will be no refunds for any reason for the workshop portion, including illness. Thank you for your understanding.